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Posttraumatic Disorders: Redefining Posttraumatic Stress Disorder, Related Disorders
and the Use of Patient Guided
and Enhanced Eye
Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
Summary Generally,
humans are very resilient to extremely painful and dangerous events,
loss of loved ones, etc. Posttraumatic symptoms including nightmares
are usually temporary. Chronic PTSD and other trauma-related
psychiatric disorders results from a conflict between reality and
cultural expectations, rather than experiences of severe danger, pain
and losses. A culture-based judgment that an experience "must not
occur" seems to block processing of memories and leads to psychiatric
disorders. Sometimes a trauma could be processed but a second trauma
occurs before the first was processed, and chronic problems develop. In
a simple model, we may describe psychotherapy, including EMDR, as
addressing the failure of mental processing, the patient's being stuck
in cultural judgments and beliefs that prevent normal interactions of
left hemisphere (which holds language, and cultural dictates) with
other centers (mid brain nuclei and right hemisphere).
Introduction Confusion
regarding the nature or essence of PTSD and other posttraumatic
disorders remains a major problem, and it is not well understood why
many patients do very poorly after a trauma and/or seem treatment
resistant. Hidden secondary gain from PTSD symptoms are sometimes
overlooked, but more importantly, a new understanding of the
posttraumatic disorders and their therapies is needed.
For the last two decades, eye movement
desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR) has been used for the treatment
of posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and some other conditions,
frequently with amazing results. However, mainstream psychiatry
hardly considers EMDR a primary treatment for PTSD, even though studies
finally seem to be acknowledged as valid. Part of the reluctance
to utilize EMDR may be the fact that it does not primarily address
patient behavior, but rather how patients feel and handle traumatic
memories. Therapists may also resist using a technique that is
not a talk psychotherapy. Older psychotherapeutic techniques
often include imagined and practiced exposure to situation that PTSD
patients avoided. These may be similarly effective as EMDR for many
patients, however, they often appear cruel and slow as compared to EMDR
which gives rapid relief without major distress. It may also be
argued that EMDR addresses the basic problems of PTSD more directly
than forms of desensitization treatments.
Most patients have complex problems and
benefit from complex therapy, which may include cognitive, behavioral,
suggestive and other techniques. However, cognitive and
suggestive therapies do not need to address details of traumas and
specific meaning for the patient. Cognitively, a belief in the
flexibility of the mind and a reevaluation of broad beliefs is most
important. (Mental disorders are not defined by abnormal symptoms
but by being stuck in those symptoms, or stuck in mental processes that
cause them; therapy must strengthen the mind's flexibility and
adaptability.)
Explanation of Stress, Chronic PTSD and Related Chronic Symptoms; Role of Culture Psychological
stress1 may be explained as response to novelty, i.e. a situation that
is either new, or if not new, the person has not yet adjusted to it and
does not feel ready for it. Stress is often perceived as positive
or mixed. Negative stress or anxiety consists in lasting internal
conflict, feeling pressure to but not being able to decide, not finding
what is the best (or least bad) response. Normally, the human mind is extremely adaptable. All symptoms of
mental disorders, anxiety with inability to make decision, panic,
agitation, hopelessness, irrational fears, hallucinations, etc., are
basically normal; the pathology consists in being 'stuck' in them.
In most conflicts, if there is no obvious
solution, the person should, after taking time to review available
data, be able to follow intuition and conscience. Intuition
efficiently evaluates much data, but most of the data is outside
conscious awareness2.
The person's conscience considers ethics
and influences intuition. However, cultures teach values and
virtues that often conflict with reality and with each
other. Language and culture are full of judgments, which, if not
followed,
lead to guilt and depression. Particularly
after the experience of traumatic events, thoughts may move into
vicious cycles: conflicts become bigger, decision-making becomes more
difficult. With a heightened sense of uncertainty, minor
objective dangers may lead to insolvable conflicts and to panic
attacks, e.g. in a crowd, the patient may fear that a fire alarm leads
to a stampede, that he/she stumbles and is trampled to death. The
thought of having a heart attack may be a relief (much less painful
than the slow death from being trampled and at the end being burned
while still alive). The mind learns panic reactions (brain
circuits that initiate a panic reaction get reinforced) and the
response becomes more readily induced, often just by a frightening
memory or thought. Generalized anxiety disorder is probably also
largely the result of learned and generalized responses that originated
from a traumatic experience, even though there appears to be a genetic
component. Often, it is not obvious how
chronic pain develops; naturally, the mind should tune down and most of
the time ignore continuos and intermittent stimuli which have no longer
meaning3. However, pain often has a meaning and may become
chronic because of its function(s). Sometimes chronic pain
syndromes appear posttraumatic, even when there are no other chronic
PTSD symptoms. Psychotherapy, with or without EMDR may be
helpful4.
Where
traumas are frequent, most people appear to process the memories and
later feel rather stronger because of the trauma5.
The trauma may at
first lead to many PTSD symptoms, such as general uncertainty and
anxiety, nightmares, intrusive thoughts, and flash backs, but these
eventually resolve to a large extent or completely without therapeutic
intervention6. Naturally humans are extremely resilient regarding
pain, fear, deaths of children and loved ones, etc. Such traumas were,
and in many places still are, frequent and perceived as 'normal' or
even to be expected. Definitions of
'trauma' are controversial. Powerlessness is hardly central since
most people are, most of the time, powerless in most regards.
Pain, fear of death and witnessing cruelties do not appear pivotal
either: these have been common in cultures all over the world7. The victim's perception that an experience is negative and outside the
range of customary and culturally accepted human experiences, is
apparently much more important. Examples: Westerners being forced
to eat raw, primitive animals; seemingly erratic cruel treatment by
family and friends. Cultural expectations may lead normal
experiences to become severely traumatic, e.g. being intellectually
below average and not able to pass a difficult examination may lead to
shame and dishonor, even causing people to commit suicide; the
accidental discovery of masturbation and consequent urges may lead to
severe guilt and fears. Cultures often exaggerate the perception
of acute psychological traumas.
Multiple traumas, particularly consequent
traumas before previous ones are processed, may be a major cause of
chronic psychiatric disorders. Traumatization in childhood has
probably a poorer prognosis than later traumas, and later psychotherapy
that includes EMDR may be less efficacious than in PTSD due to traumas
in adulthood8 and vulnerability to chronic posttraumatic symptoms is
considerably increased if there was significant early life
stress9. However, many people with a history of severe, repeated
traumas, although suffering from some adverse consequences, have later
few PTSD symptoms. Bowen Theory suggests that a lower level of
differentiation of self10 probably contributes to severity and
chronicity of problems.
The
perception of being part of a family, clan or group and a culture are
important. Culture gives people a sense of belonging and, if
cultural mandates are obeyed, a feeling of being 'right' and
'good'11. This perception of belonging promotes resilience and the
strength to accept extraordinary pain and losses that are considered
'normal' within the culture. In addition, culture becomes part of
people's identity. However, there is often a high cost to being
part of one's culture. Cultural traditions
are derived from and feel like instincts12. They become "second
nature." However, while failure of completing an instinctive
behavior primarily leads to frustration, transgressions against
cultural-traditional expectations lead to embarrassment, shame, guilt,
disgust and/or other powerful negative emotions13. Additionally,
people may severely aggress against individuals who fail culture or
disregard traditions. Shame occurs when failing to live up to
cultural expectations (whether person tries hard or not), particularly
if the failure is observed by important persons. Guilt is a consequence
of failing where a choice and free will is perceived, e.g. if a
forbidden act was impulsively committed (people are supposed to be able
to control impulses when recognizing what is 'right' and 'wrong'),
when, because of fatigue or a conflict, a prescribed behavior was
omitted (but the person was assumed to know its importance), or when a
marginalized person may stop following cultural directives (such
persons are considered "bad"). A child may also feel shame when
parents refuse rituals, such as circumcision or Christian
sacraments. Disgust is mostly perceived by victims and observers
of transgressions e.g. when forced to eat food and follow rituals of an
alien, as inferior perceived, culture.
Shame, guilt, and disgust are not only a
direct consequence of conflicts with cultural-traditional expectations,
they are expected by members of a culture; people who feel ashamed,
guilty, and disgusted are considered morally superior to people who do
not or no longer experience these feelings and/or who do not express
and show such feelings. To clear a family of shame and disgust,
suicide, 'honor killing', or murder misrepresented as suicide may
become the expected resolution.
No longer being fully part of one's community
contributes to a sense of abandonment with terror or horror.
Being completely ostracized and even considered dead by one's community
shifts symptoms of shame and guilt to the sense of social isolation,
not belonging, and being uprooted; to severe depression, and often to
premature death.
The
root and essence of PTSD is a conflict with prevailing, local and/or
personal culture. The patient feels shame, guilt, and/or disgust,
leading to terror and a sense of no longer being fully accepted by
society. Psychological traumas without danger of physical injury
may lead to PTSD, because they clash with cultural expectations, e.g.
when a child is fondled by a relative who portrays himself as loving
and is not threatening. Often, conflicts concerning abuse include
conflicts between self-respect and honesty versus maintaining family
honor and loyalty. Conversely, intrusive and painful examinations
and procedures involving sexual organs, even in children, do not lead
to PTSD, if culturally approved, i.e. if the (medical) specialist is
assumed to work within professional ethics. Experiencing or
witnessing major danger and pain rarely lead to lasting posttraumatic
symptoms, if considered "normal", e.g. in accidents, medical treatments
or childbirth. PTSD in soldiers mostly occurs in wars which,
according to the soldier's view, should not have been fought, at least
not in the way he/she experienced it, and in war events that far
surpass what is expected according to training and other learning14.
Transgressions typically leading to PTSD
within a culture, are severely punished, sometimes outside the legal
system. Perpetrators of such crimes are particularly loathed,
even within prisons.
In PTSD, being outside cultural expectations
usually includes a sense of unpredictability of the future and the
victim may lose his/her trust in humanity, nature, spiritual-religious
meaning, and/or protection by God. Terror may include an
anticipation of further inconceivable victimizations, a sense that fear
and pain are unbearable, without foreseeable end and without meaning,
possibly recurring over and over. There is also a perception
and/or the reality of becoming an outcast, being abandoned and rejected
by family, clan, religious community, and society15.
Perception and interpretation of memories
varies over time. When traumatized, a person may feel much
support and functioning is culturally and pragmatically most important;
going on with life may facilitate quick acceptance of events. Much
later, there may be stress, temporary isolation and traumas that
lead to phases of PTSD more related to the old than any new trauma.
Shame, guilt, disgust, horror and terror may
be sympathetically experienced even if not in danger and not directly
witnessing events16. Hearing about extraordinary suffering,
depictions and documentary reporting of violence and working
therapeutically with victims may lead to some PTSD symptoms. Even
realistic and historical novels, theater, movies and learning about the
suffering of animals may lead to sympathetically caused PTSD
symptoms. Tortures may include having to observe loved ones being abused or hearing others' screaming in pain.
In
posttraumatic disorders, there is at first overwhelming negative
stress, then partial relief, but conflicts remain and victims often
feel trapped in negative emotions. Chronic posttraumatic
symptoms, such as nightmares, flashback experiences, other dissociative
symptoms, feeling 'stuck' in negative emotions, etc. arise when
experiences clash with cultural expectations, and the cultural
expectations seemingly interfere with the processing of overwhelming
negative stress.
Culture and cultural
morality, as expressed in folklore, religion and secular laws, seem
closely associated with the language center in the left hemisphere;
language itself is full of words that incorporate
judgments. Judging events according to cultural standards and
traditions often
creates major conflicts which are insolvable. Mental processing appears
to stop. The patient holds unprocessed, dissociated memory
fragments, including images of places where acute or sympathetic pain
was experienced, sense of being abandoned, shame, guilt, horror, and
associated memories. These memories may be hard to access but are
triggered by unpredictable stimuli. Acute, temporary symptoms are
normal in any situation of extreme pain, fear, loss, sense of
abandonment, etc., but if the experience can soon be accepted as
accidental or, within the culture, essentially 'normal', symptoms
usually resolve.
Genetic factors probably contribute to the
risk for developing PTSD. Vulnerability is increased with early
life stress and victimizations, and if comparable experiences are
repeated before the previous victimization was adequately
processed. At least temporarily, people are also vulnerable to
other anxiety disorders, including panic disorder and psychosomatic
disorders. In a chronic state of conflict, the person feels bad
and unable to enjoy normal activities. Posttraumatic stress symptoms
often contribute to or cause chronic depressive, anxiety and
psychosomatic pain disorders without fulfilling criteria of PTSD.
Unhealthy lifestyle and poor quality of social interactions may be part
cause, part result of chronic depression. Eye Movement
Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), cognitive and hypnotic
techniques are generally helpful therapies.
In addition to shame, guilt, and disgust,
which are culturally and morally expected, there are negative emotions,
which are considered morally wrong or sinful, particularly anger, rage,
or hatred; haughtiness or vanity; and envy17. These are probably
also related to psychological traumas. They reflect poor
interpersonal relationships: the person feels mistreated, hopeless
and/or helpless, misunderstood, inferior, perceiving poverty, bad luck,
lack of talents, etc. as grossly unjust, etc. They are usually
not associated with typical PTSD symptoms, but they are characterized
by continuous conflicts about the negative perceptions and
feelings. The person usually feels 'stuck', similarly as in
PTSD. EMDR may be helpful in such conflicts.
Major traumas, personally or sympathetically
experienced, lead to a permanently changed view and perception of the
world. However, many victims eventually feel that they are better
persons due to the experience and its processing, and PTSD symptoms
become minimal and/or well controllable by the person. Rapidly
reaching such an outcome is the primary goal of a treatment approach
that includes educational cognitive therapy, EMDR, and possibly
hypnotic treatment or the teaching of self-hypnosis.
Training of Therapists; Special Instructions Only
therapists with considerable experience in different therapy approaches
that may include behavioral, cognitive, and suggestive techniques
should utilize EMDR and the proposed treatment approaches. EMDR,
combined with suggestive techniques, should be used by therapists
experienced with PTSD, hypnotic techniques and psychotherapy of
patients with dissociative symptoms. Ideally, therapists
personally experienced the benefits of EMDR in relieving very
disturbing memories, they practice meditative and basic self-hypnotic
techniques, and they are be able to teach meditative techniques18.
General Treatment Issues Sometimes
patients have an obvious goal for relief of some form of suffering;
they come because they believe that change is possible and they appear
ready to accept whatever it takes to improve. Otherwise, in all
treatments, therapists may need to clarify that there is a positive,
unambiguous goal that the patient considers essentially
reachable. If reaching the goal causes some losses, issues of
grief and lost secondary gain must be addressed. If there are
secondary gain and/or other psychodynamic reasons for the patient to
hold on to his/her pain, cognitive and/or psychodynamic treatment may
be necessary. Models that explain the patients' problems and how
they may be addressed, are usually helpful.
The patient also needs to accept the
flexibility of the mind and that seemingly fixed emotional reactions
can change. The past influences but does not determine the
future: the brain or mind can change. Chronicity of pain and
mental problems are usually self-fulfilling prophecies rather than due
to physical abnormalities19.
Goals are first clarified in a cognitive or
mental process, then they may be evaluated by self-hypnotic techniques,
i.e. the patient is taught to use relaxation and meditation techniques
(general relaxation, autogenic training); then he/she is asked to
imagine and visualize having reached the goal, first for a short time,
then after having goal reached for an extended time. While
visualizing the future, the patient is encouraged to go through whole
days as imagined after the goal is reached. This technique is
likely to bring the goal from rational/theoretical thinking to an
emotional level. It is also likely to uncover hidden factors that
interfere with the patient's progress.
Eclectic psychotherapy may include EMDR and
suggestive (hypnotic) techniques and there may be some overlap in the
ways these two therapies work. Introduction to a hypnotic state
may include watching a pendulum, inducing eye movements comparable to
those achieved in EMDR, and the expectations of a patient who seeks an
EMDR therapist may be compared to expectations in
hypnotherapy. Both, EMDR and hypnosis benefit from a mental state
that is open to
major changes in perceptions. EMDR may have some placebo effect,
however, it is highly unlikely that a placebo effect is a major
component of EMDR's positive results since, in controlled medication
studies, PTSD responded poorly to placebo.
Patient History and Diagnostic Considerations A
general history of the patient's life, psychosocial development, and
previous treatment is indicated in most patients. Often, the time
of traumatic events helps sort out what chronic symptoms are likely
related to traumas. Otherwise, the history may be rather cursory
and the patient must not be pressured to give details of traumatic
experiences he/she is not readily bringing up. A sense of being
stuck in negative emotions may be the key symptom when considering
EMDR. While taking a history some issues should be considered:
Generally, EMDR is used after a detailed
evaluation of the patients' traumas and their effect on the patients'
perception of self, etc. For some patients with PTSD and related
disorders, it is difficult or unbearable, to talk about their worst
traumas, particularly details or aspects of the traumatic experiences
that make them feel most ashamed, guilty, and terrified. They may
be able to think about them, and they may spontaneously remember worst
aspects while in therapy, but they feel unable to put them into spoken
language, and they may be afraid to talk about them for many reasons.
When we explain EMDR in a simple, meaningful
model, it may seem to patients that it is not important for the
therapist to know details of traumas. The patients are probably
right. A patient may at first experiment with a lesser issue,
without telling the therapist what he/she is thinking about; almost
always, there is considerable subjective relief with only one short
EMDR episode. EMDR-like relief of "stuck" negative feelings often
occurs spontaneously, e.g. when walking or looking out a train window,
with the eyes focusing on objects that appear on one side and moves to
the other until they disappears. Painful memories become bearable
and can be accepted.
Memories of trauma may be inaccurate and
disorganized. They may be (temporarily) lost, but probably only in case
of primarily psychological trauma without major injury and pain.
Extreme pain and/or fear of death leads generally to very firm, vivid
memories, even if the pain itself is not remembered (colors, sounds,
and emotions may be re-experienced in the patient's mind, when
remembered and in flashbacks, but physical pain is not). In other
words, people only remember that, at the time, they interpreted their
perceptions as physical suffering. Dissociation may or may not
occur; it appears most likely in primarily psychological and prolonged
severe physical abuse (endorphin related? example: experiencing oneself
as looking down on victim while being sexually abused, perceiving pain
as moderate to severe sensations without hurting, as if on morphine)
and in acute and obvious threat to life (adrenaline related? example:
being in war, hyper-alert and fully aware of all details but not
feeling that limb was severed, i.e. completely unaware of body while
there should be extreme pain). However in torture, mistreatment
with obviously no intent of (immediately) killing the victim, fear and
stress may actually intensify and/or create pain; this even occurs in
voluntary painful treatments, e.g. pain when dentist's drill only
touches a gold crown. It is not certain whether knowing of
accuracy of memories is important (essentially true versus false
memories); however, details do not need to be known by the
therapist. Probably much more important are goals of
treatment, and chronic negative emotions associated with and/or
resulting from trauma.
The
time of the trauma or stage of processing is considered. When
there are acute posttraumatic symptoms, the patient probably needs
mostly affirmation of his/her humanness, i.e. affirmation that the
patient still is essentially a complete, valued and valuable person,
worthy of affection and caring. Caring and sensitive touch, eye
contact, talking in a calm voice affirmingly, etc. may be helpful, but
the supportive person has to be sensitive to the patient's state of
mind, depending on the recent trauma. EMDR may be used to help
establish and support a calm scene. Yoga or alternate nose
breathing may be helpful. Alternating movements, such as
self-hugging while tapping upper arms alternately, or asking the
patients to follow back and forth movement with their eyes, as in EMDR,
may be helpful, with no instructions what he/she is to think. In
the early stages of psychotherapy, the trauma has to be acknowledged
without any suggestion that the trauma was worse or less serious than
perceived by the patient. Very short meditation may be explained
as narrow mental focus (e.g. on breathing or essence of calm scene) and
no judgment (sounds, perceptions, including pain, just are; person is
to avoid thoughts of reasons, purpose or meaning).
When asking questions about history and
explaining PTSD, it is important to use proper language. If the
patient self-abuses or self-injures, it must not be called
self-mutilation, since mutilation, by definition, has the goal of
disfiguring and/or impairing functions. The term survivor has
been widely used in abuse victims. It may be comforting to patients who
previously felt belittled, i.e. when there were suggestions that he/she
was lying, exaggerating, hypochondriacal, hysterical, or malingering
when trying to talk about a trauma and PTSD symptoms. Generally,
the term survivor should probably be avoided unless the patient was in
significant danger of death, e.g.
if intended major injury or murder
was part of the victimization; otherwise, the term "survivor"
exaggerates the trauma, rather than putting it into
perspective. Most patients are aware that there are many
situations in life that
seem, at least for a short time, life threatening or associated with a
fear of losing one's mind, but later the person does not consider
him/herself a survivor of an acutely life threatening situation
(objectively, there is always a minor danger of an imminent
catastrophic disease or accident).
When
talking with an abuse victim who feels guilty, it is important not to
simply imply that the guilt belongs to the perpetrator, moving the PTSD
victim to feeling stuck in anger and, possibly, vicious revenge
thoughts. The therapist is to clarify that the perpetrator was
wrong, not the victim, but being wrong must not be considered identical
with guilty: causation is not equal with guilt and retribution is
hardly helpful; executing the perpetrator does not relieve PTSD20. This may be particularly important if the perpetrator is a close, even
loved, relative. Furthermore, the perpetrator is also a victim
who was failed by his family and society. Forgiving self and,
usually at a much later stage, forgiving the perpetrator, and no longer
seeing victimizations in moral terms, are important goals.
PTSD related problems may be addressed, e.g.
being unable to resolve anger and other negative emotions related to
psychologically traumatic events, even if there are no typical PTSD
symptoms. There appear to be psychodynamic and cultural reasons
for such lasting negative emotions, e.g. a patient, whose father died
prematurely due to incompetence of medics, probably felt that she would
betray her father if she would let go of the anger and stop feeling
depressed. A catholic who decided to have an abortion for good
reasons may still hold on to guilt feelings (without other PTSD
symptoms), believing she is a better person when feeling guilt than if
simply acknowledging the reasons for her decision and the positive
result (carrying pregnancy to terms and giving newborn up for adoption
generally creates much more emotional pain and guilt).
Traumas and EMDR, Explained in Plain Terms (A Simplified Model): In the following, material in brackets [ ] may be omitted.
When a person experiences severe fear, pain,
shame, disgust, horror, terror, etc., there is a powerful stress
reaction. The stress management system may be overwhelmed. [While
memories are usually strengthened by positive reinforcements, such as
finding good food or beauty,] extreme stress seems to ingrain specific
memories as if edged permanently into the brain. At the same
time, processing of data is disturbed: there seems to be a disruption
of normal interaction between left hemisphere with midbrain and right
hemisphere. [Basic brain functions include language, recognizing
cause and effect and judging (mostly left hemisphere); calming,
integrating and associative functions and sense of space and
relationships (more right hemisphere); long-term declarative memory
formation and input or memory screening functions (hypocampus and
amygdala important); feelings, emotions, motivation, and state of
consciousness (limbic system and areas in mid brain)].
It appears that extreme stress leads to the
loss of balance between the dominant and the non-dominant hemisphere:
between language, cognitions, moral functions, judging, feeling judged,
vis-ˆ-vis calm, meditative state of mind, a sense of being in a place,
being part of human relationships. Sometimes already during, but
mostly after the trauma, there is often some dissociation, e.g.,
specific memories may appear separate from memories of associated
events and feelings, or the sentient mind seems to leave the
body. Later, the sense of insecurity, which should be related to
specific environmental cues, is felt much of the time, even in an
apparently safe and supportive environment. Physiologically, it
appears that many important pathways between brain regions are
blocked. Areas that handle memories show impaired
functions. Areas where acute stress is expressed are not calmed.
Explaining
PTSD and EMDR further: EMDR appears to adress inadequate
interactions
of the left hemisphere with the right hemisphere and mid brain. In
clashes between culture and reality, interactions appear weakened or
blocked. Language, cognitive knowledge,
scientific and cultural notions including, most importantly, judgment,
are almost exclusively located in the gray matter of the left
hemisphere. When the neuroanatomist Jill Bolte Taylor, Ph.D. had
a massive stroke that destroyed her language center, she was fully
aware, observing the neurological changes and she had insight into the
catastrophic loss of functions. She stated that it was like a
migraine, but describes that, while losing more and more left
hemisphere functions, she soon felt a growing sense of peace21.
The with the language center associated "moral
center" which guards cultural values and judgments, clashes, in PTSD,
with the perception of reality and apparently prevents processing and
growth. Naturally, humans are very resilient to pain, fear,
losses, etc., when there are no conflicts. However conflicts are
frequent, e.g. obeying moral mandates of loyalty and family honor may
lead to conflicts that are not resolvable, unless one's culture is
renounced. PTSD treatment includes changing and improving
personal culture, rebelling against local and family culture, and
bringing left and right hemispheres into harmony.
The eye movements used in EMDR activate many
mental pathways which are close to and probably interacting with the
pathways that appear largely blocked22. Physiologically,
the
blocked pathways then become "loosened", and some seem to suddenly open
up, creating communications within the mind that allow seeing stuck
images and feelings from very different angles. There may be a
feeling that traumatic experiences are processed
instantly. [Whatever processing took place earlier was not
recognizable because of
chronic stress symptoms, but with EMDR, it may become apparent.]
EMDR may also help to deepen insights,
bringing them from an intellectual to an emotional level, (in the
language of our culture, from the brain to the heart). For
instance, when patients know that they have no objective reason to feel
guilty, ashamed, disgusted, dirty, etc., such insights may not help
them until EMDR or another psychotherapeutic process has helped them to
feel differently about the events.
After
explaining PTSD and related disorders, the goal of cognitive and
emotional reinterpretation may be explained without asking the patient
about his/her history of traumas. The patient is reminded that
severe abuse and traumatizations are frequent but that most victims
later feel that they became stronger people, mentally or psychically
(or spiritually), wiser and more empathetic.
What distinguishes people who do and do not
develop chronic PTSD are cultural and personal expectations [and
factors contributing to vulnerability]. However, these expectations can
be reshaped or altered long after the event. Many trauma victims
later learn that they were not alone, that many people were victimized
in comparable ways, that the events were, within their society and
given the circumstances, not extremely unusual and, possibly, even
expected, even though regrettable and in some ways 'wrong'23.
In order to recognize their own resilience,
patients may also recognize that events leading to PTSD are usually not
the most dangerous and/or physically painful experiences in a person's
life, e.g. being
publicly shamed and humiliated versus severe physical
punishment; being sodomized versus a motor bike accident; being fondled
and/or raped without major physical violence versus major surgery or
childbirth. Even when victimization was very severe and included
major physical injuries, patients often recall incidents in which they
experienced similar pain and fear of death without consequent PTSD
symptoms. In other words, chronic PTSD is largely about failed
cultural expectations as perceived later, and a major goal of treatment
is to help patients change their perceptions and assumptions, to rebel
against the cultural expectations that were instilled in
them. With treatment, the victim of an unethical act must no
longer believe
he/she deserves to be seen as inferior; shame, guilt and disgust should
ease and disappear.
If the patient's culture (culture at large,
family culture, consequent personally developed values, including
personal religious beliefs) designates past events as absolutely
unacceptable and against any reasonable expectation, the culture is
wrong: the culture instilled expectations that could not be
fulfilled24. Cultures are wrong in making victims of human rights
violations feel shame, guilt, disgust, and horror; and causing a
patient to believe he/she is too bad, or too far removed from normalcy,
to remain part of society. If patients feel guilty, they may
strive to change guilt to regret, learn from it, and maybe make amends,
at least symbolically. If patients feel shame, they should rebel
against the notion that they became 'damaged' and inferior, no longer
worthy of friendships, because of a failure or victimization. If
an individual considers others guilty, he may learn to see them as
victims who did not get the help they needed when young and in a bad
place.
PTSD-related symptoms, i.e. feeling stuck in
negative emotions related to a trauma but without PTSD, may be
addressed in a similar way. Such emotions include anger and
guilt. Other negative emotions, e.g. envy, related to feelings of
inferiority and shame, may, in the patient's mind, be unrelated to
psychological traumas. There may be no specific memories of humiliation
or similar experiences. In spite of that, EMDR should be
considered.
Patient-Guided and Enhanced EMDR Procedure Patients
with severe trauma histories may be reluctant or unable to talk about
their memories without breaking down crying and feeling panic stricken,
even if there has been an ongoing therapeutic relationship: verbalizing
past victimizations sometimes leads to a higher level of despair and/or
details may still feel shameful. The patient should perceive the
therapist as deeply empathetic. The therapist should never be perceived
as mainly curious or as voyeur25. The therapist may start with
explanations, short meditation, establishing or reinforcing a calm
scene and then EMDR without the therapist knowing the memories the
patient feels ready to address. After EMDR, the patient may feel
more comfortable and ready to talk about relevant memories.
Ideally, EMDR is used in conjunction with
ongoing psychotherapy or counseling, but may be used outside a context
of ongoing psychotherapy in selected cases. Such cases would
include a previous evaluation which indicates that the patient is
generally quite stable and has a history of functioning fairly well,
without episodes of psychosis, dissociation, suicidality, and/or
self-injurious behaviors. Once trust is established, EMDR may
also be the beginning of an ongoing therapeutic relationship (e.g.
doing EMDR during initial evaluation of a patient with posttraumatic
issues). In either case, the sense of a therapeutic relationship
is very important even if developed during the first few minutes of
seeing a new patient26. Taking a short history and explaining
PGE-EMDR partly functions to establish and/or strengthen this
relationship.
PGE-EMDR sessions generally last 45-60
minutes. However, sessions should not be scheduled at the end of
the day or before the patient must hurry away, since EMDR may bring up
memories that are unsettling to the patient. It may be safest if
the patient has a resting time in the clinic after the session. In
some cases the patient should be able to shortly see a counselor
later that day for assurance, or be able to attend a group, as
available. If unsettling memories come up, the patient should be
able to set up a follow-up EMDR session within a few days, otherwise
the next appointment may be scheduled weeks later.
Before
getting into traumatic memories the patient is to find a form of short
(couple of minutes) meditation, i.e. establishing a narrow mental focus
(e.g. observing own breathing; sense of heaviness and warmth starting
with dominant hand and letting feeling spread; repeating few words or
one sentence prayer over and over) while not judging anything
(accepting noises, cold feet, and other perceptions; "things just are",
avoiding thoughts of reasons, meaning). The patient should also
have or establish a calm scene, a place where he/she feels safe or
secure in self-sufficient way (i. e. not depending on strong friend for
safety), still and serene. The calm scene may be reinforced by
eye movements.
The PTSD patient is then
instructed to guide memories and imagery during EMDR
herself. Before starting eye movements, s/he is asked to
think of a most
traumatic event that she often remembers, recognizing that, what s/he
experienced was not only overwhelming, it was outside the expectations
of her culture, including religious beliefs; it seemed as if s/he was
abandoned by family, society, and/or God, or that fate and nature were
against her. Even looking back at the event, it was much worse
than what she and her society would have expected and considered
tolerable in those circumstances. (It is not recommended that, in
a first session, the patient tries to find a worst, more or less
suppressed and much of the time seemingly forgotten memory.)
S/he is then asked to shortly review the
consequent general feelings, e.g. feeling abandoned, deeply humiliated,
full of shame and guilt, worthless, dirty, permanently damaged,
spiritually destroyed, degraded to a bitter and hateful disabled
person, whatever applies. S/he then must determine how she would
like to feel about it, e.g. stronger and more empathetic, and set a
goal of feeling good about herself, functioning well in spite of past
victimizations.
The patient is instructed that, during EMDR
s/he may, while moving eyes, simply try to hold on to the chosen
traumatic memories without any judgment, "the memories just are", not
good, not bad. S/he may also make efforts to observe general
feelings and keep in mind how s/he wants to feel about the memories and
about her/himself.
EMDR
is done in the standard fashion, the therapist sitting diagonally to
the patient, feet of the therapist parallel but opposite direction to
the body of the patient, both having head directed straight, not
towards each other. In other words, in a square, the patient sits
in the NW corner looking South, the therapist sits in the SE corner
looking North. Patient and therapist find a comfortable distance
for the patient to focus on the therapist's hand in front of her face
(therapist's arm is half extended). While the patient is
instructed to keep her head directed straight ahead, he is to follow
the therapist's hand: the therapist moves the hand to each side of the
patient. The therapist observes the patient's focusing while
holding the head still and the therapist observes the patient's body
language without making eye contact at any time. After a few slow
moves, the therapist may speed up the movement, going back and forth to
where the patient's eyes sweep about 30¡ to 40¡ right and left.
While moving the hand back and forth, the
therapist may first continue or repeat some simple instructions and/or
suggestions and allow or encourage the patient to talk, if he feels
like expressing what is felt or comes to mind. Otherwise it may be best
to then become silent, except for saying "good" or making another
positive short comment every few moves while the patient focuses
well. The length of each EMDR episode is partly directed by
changes in the patient's body language and facial expressions, partly
by the therapist's intuition, and, in following episodes, by patient
comments.
Movements are first slow, avoiding dizziness
or nausea in the patient. The therapist also observes whether the
eye movements are smooth. Occasionally, an eye position is
associated with where the patient looked during a trauma.
Probably more importantly, direction of eyes stimulates different parts
of the brain.
In-between sweeping lateral movements with the
hand at a speed that the patient easily follows, the therapist halts
the movement on each side for about 10-20 seconds, with or without
right-left movements between halting right and left, and
observes. Again, the patient is invited to talk or simply observe
what happens while stopping gaze on one side27. If eye movements
are uneven, the movement may also be stopped at the place where the
patient has difficulties to move smoothly. Talking in-between and
during EMDR episodes may have a hypnotic quality.
After
stopping one or two EMDR episode(s), the patient may be asked about his
level of comfort regarding the memories themselves, comparing at
beginning of or before therapy session versus now; then possibly also
about associated feelings (of shame, guilt, horror, etc.), about
him/herself as a person in the present, etc., depending on where
patient is at the time, and whether he would like to make a comment or
ask a question. (Sometimes, patients first report that rapid
movements make them feel dizzy or nauseated.)
Goals may be further elaborated and suggested
in general terms in between episodes, they may include:
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Memories are no longer associated with guilt, shame, disgust, and
horror. It was false expectations, created by culture, that led
to maintaining the sense of permanent impairment due to the trauma(s).
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Feeling able to forgive self, other humans, God, fate, nature, etc.
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Feeling relative comfort about the memories as being clearly in the
past, may be including the suggestion that the memories are as if in a
drawer that can be opened and closed at will; and feeling that memories
are no longer threatening or frightening.
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Feeling that patient could be empathetic and supportive, alleviating
pain of person who just experienced very similar trauma at the same
stage in life as the patient did. S/he could affirm that the
victim is able to heal, is not permanently damaged and still a
complete, valuable, good person. The patient would not become
sympathetic to the point of severely suffering with the patient and
becoming unable to be supportive. The patient can feel empathetic
towards the young person he/she was, as we feel empathy when learning
about somebody else's past abuse.
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Feeling good about him/herself; feeling whole, complete, valuable in spite of the remembered events.
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If a patient suffers from PTSD because he perpetrated against others
while in an extreme condition, or s/he did not stop others from
perpetrating cruel acts, s/he may recognize that the environment
contributed much and that he can be forgiven and forgive her/himself, if
learning form the event (not continuing a pattern of abuse or neglect)
and working on make at least symbolic amends.
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If the patient suffers mostly from PTSD due to sympathetic reaction,
i.e. without having been directly victimized, his/her goals include
moving towards empathy where he/she could be truly supportive to the
victims (patient may hope that he/she could handle similar
victimizations without developing chronic PTSD).
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Feeling able to function in the world, going places where previously
flashbacks occurred, working and being asset to family and society,
(also possibly welcoming bad dreams as part of further of processing
conflicts).
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Possibly feeling that re-victimization would not lead to relapse into
chronic PTSD, the essence of his/her person and meaning in life would
not be diminished.
At the end of any session, the patient
may be guided to his/her calm scene, possibly including suggestions of
the autogenic training technique.
AppendIx:
Regarding culture: Cultures and cultural traditions developed very early in human history,
and, to a very limited degree, even in non-human animals.
Cultures modify natural behaviors. Some traditions are
instrumental, e.g. tool use in chimpanzees: traditions of nut cracking
(only in West Africa) or termite fishing. Sometimes cultural
expectations only demand a good performance of a normal instinctive
behavior, requiring that less talented individuals practice intensely
to reach a minimal standard.
Human cultures developed complex traditions:
they typically exaggerate, suppress or modify (ritualize) instinctual
behaviors, giving them a cultural stamp and distinguishing their
culture from others. The traditions define a people, and became
mandates. Cultures usually also exaggerate, suppress or modify
differences between groups of people, particularly
genders. Cultures usually define themselves as a people or nation,
meaning that
everybody is descended from a mythical parent (natio means
birth). Cultural adaptation of behaviors resemble the development
of instincts in disparate species (cultural pseudospeciation28). It allowed people to live in many different environments, but often
there are no specific adaptive functions to cultural traditions. They
serve to distinguish themselves from others, making their own seem
superior29. Many
cultural traditions are essentially cruel,
irrational fads. Cultures also deal with frequently occurring
conflicts, determining "moral" ways of dealing with them. Cultures
also help people sublimate conflicts in games and art forms.
Instincts
are the basis of many feelings and traditional behaviors, however,
cultures are extremely important in determining what is considered
normal fear, pain and danger, and what constitutes abuse. In wars
and law enforcement, much is considered proper by one, abusive by other
cultures. More complex are situations within cultures, within
families, where many cultures encouraged both empathetic and aggressive
attitudes.
In all cultures (actually
throughout nature), females are at a disadvantage because they have a
much larger investment in their offspring and are, consequently easier
to exploit. Males may feel inferior because of their lack of
reproductive potential. Basically, females can do anything males
can but not vice versa. Furthermore, at least theoretically,
males are rarely sure whether their mates' offspring is
theirs. Probably due to these factors, typical male tasks are
considered more
important, are better paid and more celebrated than typical female
accomplishments (this has been observed in all types of cultures
throughout history).
When observing cultural developments, there
are often instinctive and cultural factors. Konrad Lorenz
observed that in vertebrates, male sexual behavior is often combined
with aggression, and female sexual behavior with fear. Usually,
males are aggressive primarily towards other males when feeling
sexual. In most vertebrates, males and females are attracted to
each other but the female has to invite copulation, even though she
does not know what the male will do or what copulation means for her.
Typically, the male sex role includes an
aspect of aggression, and humans are unusual in that males easily can
force sex. Males often do not wait to be invited by their partner and
males may get rather more aroused if a virgin bride is afraid; sympathy
rarely stops sexual arousal. Conversely, in mature women, some
fear may reinforce arousal. In many cultures the assumed weak and
subservient role of females and the aggressive aspect of sex are
grotesquely exaggerated, and cultures may persuade women that an
empathetic male is effeminate.
Similarly, children are naturally very
dependent on adults, should obey and be respectful under all
circumstances. Fears in general and at least the threat of
physical punishments are considered normal and may strengthen the bond
between children and parents. Children may also have to learn
very early not to trust strangers and to defend themselves, essentially
to assume that some people are bad, cruel and 'out to get
them'. Cultures may train children to fight when
insulted. Parents may
instill fear in children by punishing them physically for behaviors
that are normal in the child's developmental stage. Religious
teachings, stories dealing with ghosts and spirits, and stories
describing extreme adventures, hunts and warfare may teach children to
deal with severe fears. These have often been replaced by graphic
depictions of cruelties in children's TV programs, movies and video
games.
Physical, sexual and mental abuse are very
relative and culture-bound terms. Obviously, we should move away
from cultures that exaggerate aggressive instincts and discriminate
against groups. But psychiatric treatment must first observe the
culture of the patients, then help them see the human community more
broadly and empathetically, and lastly work on improving their personal
culture. Ethically a most basic issue is to be broadly empathetic
and stop culturally reinforced "us-them" thinking, for example,
people must never see themselves as "us males" versus "them females",
or "us adults" versus "them juveniles", or "us Americans" versus "them
immigrant-foreigners".
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1 Biologically, stress is defined as a significant response by an
organism to a biological, chemical, physical or emotional factor (e.g.
infection, poisoning, cold exposure, injury, acute pain, perceived
danger, conflict). People generally like and enjoy stress, stress
is usually mostly positive or mixed, e.g. starting a career, falling in
love, starting a family. People anticipate that they can handle
challenges and that instincts and experience will help with new
problems. People also like acute negative stress that is quickly
resolved, as, for instance, scary moments while skiing. Stress is perceived as negative when the novelty is negative, i.e. not
meaningful and/or contradicting positive goals, when there are
conflicting goals, and when the person sees no way out or cannot decide
how to proceed. Pain always leads to a stress reactions: impulses
from peripheral nerves indicate potentially dangerous damage to tissue
and there is a mental reaction, "screaming" that the sensation must
stop, that it is not acceptable. The mental reaction is
particularly strong if the pain seems meaningless or should not occur
according to cultural expectations and values. However there is
usually an immediate down-tuning of the intensity of pain along with
some mental adjustments. Both, positive and negative stress are
potentially dangerous and can lead to health problems such as peptic
ulcers or heart attacks (particularly when they are prolonged).
2 Intuition results from the unconscious processing of innate
data, many memories, projected outcomes of possible actions, and
instinctual reactions and emotions that are associated with
them. Rational explanations for a decision are mostly
afterthoughts and
hardly reflect what makes a decision or behavior feel right or good. 3 Examples: people can learn to interpret swimming in ice cold
water as refreshing rather than painful, people frequently tune out the
sound of trains which sound like an approaching tornado, or dangerous
smells, as in a refugee camp without sanitation. Other examples: mouth
accustomed to hot foods and drinks (spicy and/or too hot to hold);
people with limited income tolerating and eating with rotten teeth
(which in the past would have been pulled). Many elderly people
function well with slipped disks and collapsed vertebras. 4 A patient in her late twenties suffered from chronic severe
pain in her genitalia, on touch and particularly during vaginal
examinations and intercourse. She was previously diagnosed
with "chronic vulvovaginites" (she suffered from the condition since
adolescence, and she had her baby by C-section because of expectation
of extreme pain in vulva). Listening to her history (and noting
that urination did not hurt), I suggested that her brain was "wired
wrong", that she never had reason to learn enjoying sex (first sex was
very bad and male partners were abusive and/or non-caring). I
then suggested that she could change her mind's interpretation of
genital sensations. I advised her to very gently massage vulva
with soothing oil, etc. A few weeks later she left town and
developed a new relationship; she enjoyed sex. She made other
changes in her life; the pain did not return. EMDR was not needed
but her mind had to be freed from the belief that her pain was due to
an incurable chronic medical disease.
5 Psychiatric Times, April 2004, p.58-60: "Posttraumatic Growth: A
New Perspective on Psychotraumatology," by Richard G. Tedschi and
Lawrence Calhoun
6 Dreams may be most important in processing
traumas. Complex dreams may symbolically resolve psychological
conflicts.
Nightmares appear to be failed attempts to deal with conflicts: the
person wakes up in the pinnacle of the allegory. The patient may
be advised to support the spontaneous process of resolving
trauma-related conflicts by thinking about the content of nightmares
when awake; he/she may think of nightmares as first part of a
surrealistic fairy tail about him/her.
7 Inhumane therapies, blatant ignoring of excruciating 'normal'
pain, public tortures, warfare with ill-treatment of civilians, cruel
initiations, etc. have been, and still are in many areas,
widespread. When no longer acceptable in public, modern
Westerners often entertain themselves with graphic depictions of
cruelties and murder scenes in media and the internet. Books
describing true crimes and wars are widely popular.
8 Clinical Psychiatry News, June 2004: "Psychotherapy May Offer
More Benefits for PTSD," by Carl Sherman (quoting B. van der Kolk's
presentation at the APA meeting); compare Bessel van der Kolks writings.
9 Psychiatric Annals, 1/2003, 33/1, p. 18-29: "Neurobiology of Early Life Stress," by Christine Heim, et al. 10 In simple ternms, differentiation of self may be described as
being self-directed, having clear values, not being easily influenced
by peers and group leaders, not overreacting emotionally to
environmental factors. 11 Humans are probably unique in their perceived need or
urge to be 'right' or 'good' (even when not observed). Naturally,
good and right are largely determined by social instincts, however,
cultures with complex languages have greatly added to demands and
mandates. A 'moral center' comparable to the language center has
been proposed (Marc D. Hauser); this 'moral center' is most likely part
of or an extension of the language center as languages are already full
of judgment-containing words. The grammar of languages may follow
and be a further development of a grammar of inborn social behaviors
(Irenäus Eible-Eibesfeldt). (personal interpretation of data and
observations) 12 In complex ways, cultures exaggerate, negate or modify what is
perceived as natural, and/or cultures guide sublimation or instinctual
feelings and frustrations in symbolic and artistic expression. 13 Personal observation and interpretation of anthropological literature.
14 Personal experience in treatment of psychiatric patients.
Some examples of traumatic situations that overwhelm
the coping skills of the person and, according to conventional PTSD
definitions, are expected to lead to chronic PTSD, but usually are soon
processed as 'normal': --children in farm families witnessing the butchering of a loved animal, then being forced to eat of the meat.
--female genital mutilation, done in a prepubertal girl, with not even
a pretense of anesthesia, and with mother and other close female
relatives holding her with no sign of sympathy;
--childbirth without preparation, particularly if there is shame and
guilt regarding pregnancy, no family support, an environment that
appears surgical, and a contract that the baby is immediately removed
for adoption. 15 Rather than posttraumatic stress disorder, PTSD may be interpreted to mean pre-traumatic stress disorder. 16 It has often been observed that sympathetically experienced
physical and psychological traumas may lead to PTSD symptoms, e.g. in
children, journalists, and persons who help victims in any way,
particularly therapists. 17 Such feelings are "addicting", i.e. self-reinforcing: they feel
relatively good, the person feels strong and/or important, which is
much better than the underlying sense of powerlessness and
insignificance. 18 Instructions and practice of Autogenic Training (AT) may be
offered in groups, separate from the individual treatment of
PTSD. Autogenic training (AT) may be of particular value: it
addresses the physiological systems that respond to stress and includes
aspects of relaxation techniques, self-hypnosis (suggesting results of
relaxation of muscles, blood vessels, etc.), and including biofeedback
features, i.e.
the results of the suggestions are directly felt. The six
suggestions/steps of AT: 'right hand feels heavy', then letting
heavy feeling spread over whole body, expecting sense of sinking into
surface one sits or lies on; 'right hand feels [heavy and] warm', then
letting comfortable lukewarm and heavy feeling spread; 'heart beats
calmly and strongly'; 'breathing evenly' (automatically, passive
sensation, i.e. not particularly slowly or deeply); '[particular]
warmth in upper abdomen', leading to relaxation of GI and other
internal organs; 'cool forehead' suggesting alertness and clarity of
mind. 19 Patients may be given examples of external factors that
contribute to changes: willpower, motivation, energy level, perception
of pain and pain tolerance, etc. may change dramatically, for instance -- when deciding to join military because of pressure by family or peers, sense of duty, etc.;
-- when accepting a major career change with move to Third World; or
-- when falling in love, adapting to different culture and planning to
have a child (a young women being afraid of any pain and medical
professionals, then wanting a baby, and eight months pregnant, feeling
ready for labor pain and birth). 20 Reciprocity is instinctive and culturally reinforced, and
revenge often feels right. However, generally, there needs to be
at least de-escalation, e.g. the murder of a clansman being redeemed
with tradable goods and temporary hard labor rather than a revenge
murder, or a sadistic person being once abused, not once for each of
his victim, and not murdered, even if he committed murder.
Victims may feel right about retribution but they are aware that this
feeling is temporary and that a change about their own perception is
key to moving on and functioning again well. 21 Interview with Terry Gross on "Fresh Air", WHYY, NPR, 6/25/2008; her book: My Stroke of Insight, 2008). 22 Input from the retinas are screened analyzed in many parts of
the brain, including mid brain centers. Many patterns, shapes and
proportions directly elicit feelings and instinctual responses, both
inherently and related to learned responses. 23 PTSD symptoms may develop late when a trauma is reinterpreted
as against cultural and natural expectations, e.g. if a perpetrator is
later recognized as much more dangerous and sadistic, if a war is
reassessed as wrong, or if a African moves into a Western culture and
reevaluates initiations of his/her home culture. 24 Abuse is, by definition, "bad" or "wrong"; against instincts
and against morals or ethics. However, there are always conflicts
between humans in any relationship, between instincts and between moral
teachings. People should refrain from harming others because of
ethics, mainly insightful empathy and conscience, rather than because
of cultural mores. Even if all directly involved people are
willing to participate in an inappropriate and/or dangerous act, or if
family loyalty demands an action, an ethical person should shortly
evaluate consequences for directly and indirectly involved individuals,
then act according to his/her conscience, i.e. empathetically, neither
selfishly nor blindly following family or group culture.
Civilizations fail to teach ethics well, and
many people become perpetrators of serious unethical acts.
Civilizations should help prevent such acts and limit freedoms of
perpetrators. The acts should be seen with empathy for victims
and grief for having failed to prevent them, rather than with disgust
and moral indignation. 25 People are naturally fascinated by others' accidents and
maltreatment, but others' suffering should never become mainly
'interesting'; people must learn to be broadly empathetic and ready to
help when the suffering occurs, and to comfort survivors when meeting
them, as feasible. Broad empathy has to be learned: people
naturally see people (and animals) as "us versus them/others".
Empathy mainly works for the "us" group and people may even enjoy
watching and participating in the abuse of people perceived as "others".
26 During the initial evaluation of an opiate addiction patient, while
being in some withdrawal, the patient reported nightmares about her
child. She gave birth on the shore of a lake, screaming for help,
but nobody came; after the baby was born, she fell asleep, then found
the baby hardly breathing. After a week in a coma, life-support
of the baby was discontinued. EMDR done during the admissions
interview, before any medication was given, lead to successful
treatment of both addiction and PTSD. In some patients, EMDR at initial
evaluation addresses primarily nightmares and fear of nightmares with
the goal that, if there are further nightmares, the patient can keep
their content in mind and contemplate it as symbolic, gradually loosing
the sense of fear and horror. 27 Stopping eye movement on both sides was detected accidentally
in a session with an eight years old girl with severe trauma history;
the death of a close relative lead to her again crying daily and bed
wetting. After talking to her about the nature of PTSD and treatment
goals, when starting EMDR, she halted her eye movement to her right
during the initial slow movement. She then talked in a very low voice
(much was not understandable even to her mother, who sat beside her)
about her traumas including her guilt about not having been able to
protect her little brother. Later she was able to move her eyes
freely, she appeared more relaxed halting her gaze on the left
(non-dominant) side. This EMDR treatment episode lead to an
immediate improvement: crying and bedwetting stopped. 28 Irenäus Eibl-Eibesfeldt Die Biologie des Menschlichen
Verhaltens, dritte Ÿberarbeitete Ausgabe, Piper 1997, p. 149, 411ff,
447ff,840ff.
29 Konrad Lorenz, in Die RŸckseite des Spiegels, 1973, Behind the
Mirror, 1977, Harcourt Brace Jovanovich, p. 194, talks of groups seeing
their own culture as "refined" and others as "crude".
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